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Make coping skills easier to remember and use

What EUPD means here

Emotionally unstable personality disorder (EUPD) can affect emotions, relationships and how you feel about yourself. You may also see the name borderline personality disorder (BPD).

Dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) is one of the main treatments. It teaches skills for managing feelings, distress and relationships.

If you lose track during a session

ADHD can make it hard to take in a long explanation, even when you want to learn.

Tell your therapist: ‘I lost the steps. Can we go through one skill and try it together?’

Make a reminder you can actually use

Ask your therapist to help put that skill into a short phone note or card. Include when to use it and the first action.

Keep it somewhere easy to find. Practise finding it before you leave the session.

Practise when you are not overwhelmed

Agree a small practice with your therapist. Link it to something you already do, such as finishing breakfast, and put a reminder there.

If it does not happen, tell your therapist where you got stuck. You may need help remembering or starting—not another long explanation.

Sources for this page
  1. NHS — Psychological treatment for EUPD/BPDPublic information, including DBT and other psychological therapies
  2. Royal College of Psychiatrists — ADHD in adultsPublic information from a professional body
  3. Sprich and colleagues — Description and Demonstration of CBT for ADHD in Adults (2010)Description of an ADHD-focused treatment; practical examples are not separate trial findings

Information checked September 2026. Evidence and treatment guidance can change.